Shabbat Shalom
“This is the day of the Torah, the day of the Soul and of Freedom,” Philo.
In Judaism, Shabbat represents the resting day that God took after creating the world and it is celebrated by religious Jews once a week. In commemoration of this biblical event, creative activities such as lighting or extinguishing fire, using electricity, traveling by motorized vehicle, writing, cooking, sewing, harvesting, business related activities, and other chores are not performed. In Judaism, the ending of sun light marks the end and beginning of a day. Shabbat starts on Friday night after sunset and finishes with the sunset on Saturday.
We were invited by Shahar, our Couchsurfing host in Jerusalem, to enjoy Shabbat with him and his family. We were extremely fortunate to be welcomed by the Zohar family into their home and show us their traditions. We experienced our first Shabbat between May 30 and 31, 2014. Neither of us had much knowledge or contact with Judaism or Jewish traditions, Shabbat was a wonderful opportunity of learning, sharing, reflecting, and relaxing.
Shabbat involves a lot of preparation, when we arrived to the home that Friday afternoon, the family was cooking all meals for that evening and the next day. When the sun goes down, Shabbat is received with the lighting of the candles while all members of the family are present. We welcomed Shabbat with a warm kiss and handshake amongst us. This very special day is always highly anticipated throughout the week by many families and it now has now begun, we were happy. Then we were invited to join the family at the Synagogue, men and women enter and sit in separate places. Different prayers take place for no more than 30 minutes. Sal borrowed a kippa (traditional male head cover) from our host and we enjoyed the opportunity to be part of this ancient tradition. Subsequently, we returned home where a delicious dinner was expecting us. Jewish people follow specific rules for cooking, which is known as Kosher. One of the rules for example is that milk products and meats cannot be cooked together and three hours must be giving between the consumption of any milk or meat product. The source of this practice is based on the Torah where it is written that a baby cow should not be cooked in the milk of his mother. From then on, the idea of not mixing the two became generalized and followed. Shabbat dinner begins with prayers, singing, and the sharing of wine is a symbolic ceremony practiced through centuries. A double ration of bread on the table represents the abundance of “Mana,” food given by God to the Jewish people in the desert before Shabbat, which allowed them to have plenty of food for taking a day of rest. Although the Bible says: “ye shall no kindle fire throughout your habitations on the Sabbath day” (Exodos 35:3), most Jewish communities today have their lights set up on a timer to avoid darkness and even some places have “Shabbat elevators,” which work automatically stopping at every floor. This way they are not required to use any electricity themselves.
Our gathering was filled with conversations and we admired the Jewish family dynamic, as all members were openly speaking of their views. Having different opinions is allowed and expected, disagreeing is not a source of tension. Thinking differently and challenging each other’s thoughts is part of their daily life. Love goes beyond having different opinions. Like Shahar’s mother said: “where there is two Jews, there is at least 3 different opinions.”
We enjoyed 24 hours of quality time, interesting conversations, delicious meals, and completely disconnected from technology with the Zohar family. Experiencing Shabbat reminded us of the importance of taking a break from our fast modern routines to be with our loved ones. The benefits of avoiding the use of internet and other sources of distraction enabled us to be more present in our interactions with others and within ourselves. Even though, we are not religious or ambitious to practice any faith, we appreciate the opportunity to experience a Shabbat and look forward to adopting aspects of this healthy practice in our lives. Shabbat Shalom (Peaceful Saturday) 🙂